Jessica over at Farm Fresh Iowa is holding the "It's Real Life" blog fest again this week and the topic of discussion is "MOMENTOUS Occasions"!
Sounds like fun doesn't it? You should all join in! Just click on Jessica's name up yonder or click on the badge over there!
First of all, I don't have pictures of all of the momentous occasions in my life; who does? I mean really, everyday that I wake up and have my husband by my side and my children are healthy, then it is a momentous occasion.
There have been many momentous occasions in my life, and I am going to share pics of what I have. Hope y'all enjoy them!
I think I will start today off with a picture that represents what should have been a momentous occasion in my life, but that never came to be; my senior year of high school topped off by my high school graduation! When this picture was taken, that is what I thought would be happening!
The picture quality isn't that good because I scanned it in, and to be honest my scanner sucks!
This is one of my senior portraits and was taken the day after I got braces! (Which should explain the pained expression on my face) When I took this picture I had no idea that a few short months later, my time in high school would come to an abrupt end. In February of my senior year, I found out that I would be failing my senior English class because I had missed so many days of school. I made the decision to drop out. (Side note: if I could go back and change one thing about my life; that would be it. I would have finished high school and would have gotten my diploma.)
A couple of weeks before the date I would have been graduating from high school, came my next momentous occasion. I married my high school sweetheart, Shane. Regardless of how that marriage ended, it was a momentous occasion, and my marriage to him spawned many more momentous occasions. Here is a picture from my 1st wedding day.
If I had not married Shane, I would not have had the privilege to have the best in-laws ever known to any woman. My mother-in-law and father-in-law always treated me like I was one of their children, even after their son and I got divorced. And, for the first time in my life, I had a sister; an awesome sister that is still one of my bestest friends ever! And I got a grandfather that loved me no matter what or who I was.
During the next couple of years came the next three momentous occasions. The births of my three beautiful babies. I could not locate any pics of them when they were babies (which completely upsets me because I know I have tons.) But here is a picture of all three of them at the Fall Dance at school a couple of years ago.
Several years later, Shane and I got divorced. A couple of years later I met the most wonderful man in the world. Here is a picture of the goofball!
Two months after Paul and I met, we got married. Sorry, don't have any pictures of that wedding because we were the only ones there, well except for the judge that married us. We got married on January 16, 2004. And let me tell you, the last 4 years have been the best years of my life.
Although I have no pictures of the next momentous occasion, I have to talk about it because it really changed the way I thought about life and how I lived mine. In July of 2004 my ex-husband's mom (remember earlier that I said she treated me like one of her children. I thought of her as my mama...still do) was killed in a car accident. When my phone rang that afternoon, I had no idea that the world about was about to stop on it axis, but it did. Mama was one of the most loving, generous, funny, crazy, beautiful women I have ever had the privilege to know and without her in my life I don't know what would have happened to me. When she was killed so suddenly, I think it made all of us think about how fragile life is and how we should live each day to the fullest, tell the people you love just how much you love them every day, and never forget that tomorrow is not guaranteed, that we only have the present and should not dwell in the past or live for the future. We should live for today and not forget the ONE who put us here. We love you and miss you Mawmaw Betty!
So that is my Real Life this week? What about yours? Feel like sharing some momentous occasions or reading about others' momentous occasions? What are you waiting for...go visit Jessica!